Can you tell when you are being Abused?

Does this sound like a crazy question?

Here’s what can happen to you.

If an abuse pattern is introduced to you at
an early age, you can become so “accepting” of abuses
that it almost feels normal.
As  this pattern gets  fed with other abuses it starts
to magnetize like crazy.

The abuse stops here. Fill out the form and you shall have the audio in 3 seconds.


Recently, I had to face some old unhealed
abuse issues of my own.

It hurt…a lot.

I thought I had healed all those old issues
but Spirit showed me I had left a very
deep root.
I did a process that took me back to the
womb where I could hear my father berating
my mother, verbally abusing her.

It felt uncomfortable to me even as a tiny
fetus and some part of me believed… “this is
how men treat women”…
“This is normal behavior?”

As I did more energy work on myself I
discovered that my particular pattern
was tied into survival.
“If I don’t accept this behavior I won’t survive”

Our spirit knows that this behavior is not
acceptable but our surroundings may dictate
that abusive behavior is normal.
As children we have nothing else to compare
it to. We can become so accustomed to abuse
that we don’t even see it coming.

We don’t see the warning signs, often; we become
involved in a full-fledged abusive incident
before we realize that we are being
abused… again.

The abuse stops here. Fill out the form and you shall have the audio in 3 seconds.


So, whether it’s verbal abuse, sexual abuse,
emotional abuse, or any kind of abuse, you
must ask yourself.

“Have I truly healed from this?

Have you become so accustomed to this that
you accept this behavior as normal?

Sure,  is easier to see the bigger abuses-
ie-if you are being beaten on a regular
basis then you can be pretty sure you have
an abuse pattern going on.

But, what about the more subtle attacks on
your spirit?

What about that co-worker that is always trying to
put you down?

What about that spouse who tries to make
themselves look good by making you look ditzy?

What about all those times your spirit feels
dishonored yet you rationalize the behavior?

We keep accepting abuse sometimes because…

A. We don’t recognize certain behaviors as

B. We have not healed the core issue when
the abuse pattern was formed.

If this core abuse issue is not healed
here’s what can happen.

#1 We continue to accept abuse as normal

#2 We self abuse — eating foods that harm
our bodies, using addictive substances,

#3 We become an abuser, – or we allow our
children or family members to continue being abused.

I realized so many ways that I was allowing self abuse.

Example… If  I knew 100% that some food  would hurt my body
if I ate it …I just couldn’t resist.
Since I have had this revelation and experienced
this healing it’s like I have my own personal
little navigator on my shoulder saying, “Rebecca,
is this action self abusive or is it good for you?

Talk about making it easy to resist bad food
Lordy, Lordy — I sure don’t want to be self
abusing any longer.

Here are some signs you could have an unhealed
abuse pattern:

(You could have only one or several)

A. You allow others to make you feel small.

B. You cannot say “NO”.

C. You find it hard to stick up for yourself.

D. You find it almost impossible to make decisions.

E. You are afraid to ask for what you really want.

F. Your spirit knows you are wounded.

G. You may abuse others. (rare for women, we prefer to abuse ourselves)

H. Your children treat you disrespectfully.

I. You don’t feel like you deserve the best.

J. You don’t nurture yourself.

K. You put everyone else’s needs ahead of yours. (Martyr syndrome)

L. You find it difficult to trust anyone.

M. You are always waiting for the “other shoe” to drop.

N. You are just not happy.

O. You feel it is your duty to have S–, even when you don’t want to.

Is any of this resonating with your spirit?

Spirit would never give me revelation on such a
huge issue without giving me a unique way to
heal it.

I taught a  a Tele class just to address
this issue. I want you to have the audio of that class for FREE!

This was originally sold for $87- your free…Just because I love you and want you to be free.

The abuse stops here. Fill out the form and you shall have the audio in 3 seconds.


Please accept my gift- let the abuse stop and the healing begin…


 The object of this class is not to
swap a bunch of horror stories —
we’ve all had enough of that.

No, our purpose here is to heal the IMPRINT
when we were first impressed with abuse and
accepted it as normal.

Healing the imprint will take the blinders off
so we can fully recognize abuse if someone
would dare to try it.
We simply will no longer be a magnet to abuse.

Have you ever noticed that when someone is abusing
you it seems like some “other force” takes them
One minute they are sweet and nice and the next
they can be a raving maniac.

In the case of Sexual  abuse, they absolutely
seem carried away by some unknown force.
For this reason we absolutely MUST heal this
from a spiritual perspective.

So how are we going to heal so great an issue?




*Avana Method

*Spiritual Intervention

*Divine Forgiveness

* Changing your blueprint

What is the opposite of abuse?

Self love… heal the original abuse pattern
and the attraction is no longer there.

If you are resonating with this information, then you volunteered to be a savior. A savior of yourself, your ancestors and your decedents.

The abuse stops here. Fill out the form and you shall have the audio in 3 seconds.



  1. Isabelle Rosier, Alzado on December 27, 2009 at 5:44 pm

    You are amazing and truly wanting to help – unselfishly –
    Thank you for the revivial of the “dead” food – I have the opportunity to get organic and local when I can and often have lamented about processed food – we lawys have a choice – yes, even when we think we are being controlled.
    Much heavenly blessings on your beautoful Being,

  2. […] With love from me to you… Get it right here: […]

  3. Brenda on December 15, 2009 at 1:33 pm

    Hi Rebecca, thank you does not seem enough!!! You are a true blessing in our lives and thank you to spirit for sharing all the beautiful healing modalities with you. May you, your family and loved ones have an awesome festive season and blessed 2010!!!!!

  4. Regina on December 11, 2009 at 7:40 am

    Rebecca, you have been missed. Many thanks and a Joyful, Sacred Christmas.

  5. Kathy on December 10, 2009 at 9:26 pm

    I was going along fine until I realized that the thousands of dollars I loaned to my boyfriend plus airfare several times was me trying to buy his approval, being a rescuer, to prove that demeaning things the ex said that affected my esteem were not true. What a long process it has been. I thought after being alone 6 years, that I had stopped all those patterns. This could not have come at a better time Rebecca. I need to be free once and for all. More blessings to you. Thank you for sharing your healings.

  6. Barbara on December 10, 2009 at 9:09 pm

    Thank you Rebecca. This is God Sent, God Bless you.

  7. asia on December 10, 2009 at 8:38 pm

    thank you! thank you! thank you!

Leave a Comment