Forgiveness so complete…you forget what they did!

Once upon a time, in a land far, far away, before I found my incredible partner, Thomas, there was a charming gentleman who danced in and out of my life for nearly two years.

Oh, the adventures we had! But let me tell you, we also had more misunderstandings than was good for either of us! BOTH always thought the other was wrong! (Actually, from my perspective, of course HE was wrong, ha ha)

You see, whenever things got a bit bumpy, I would declare a temporary break from him, much to his disappointment. It became a cycle of taking a step back, reflecting on our shared joys, and scratching my head, wondering, “What in the world happened?”

It was like my memory had a secret door that refused to open when it came to recalling his missteps. How frustrating!

Months would pass without a glimpse of him, and then, fate would weave its mischievous tapestry, bringing us face to face again. And there I was, racking my brain, trying to conjure up the memories that led to our previous partings. But alas, they evaded me like water running throuh a sieve!

 

And so, the process would repeat itself: I’d take a step back, he’d promise to behave and apologize for his wrongdoings, and I’d be content to move forward with him.

But then again, sometimes HE was wrong, moody and sometimes even explosive!

What can I say? He’s human after all.

And though it may seem like an old recordd into my old journals, seeking clues to unlock the mysteries of our past. I had documented my decisions to sever our ties, convinced that his transgressions were too great to overlook. Yet, as I flipped through those pages, a peculiar revelation surfaced.

The seemingly monumental misdeeds had lost their grip on me, fading into insignificance.

Can you believe it?

Where oh where did that memory go?

It was far out of sight, and I found myself standing at a crossroads. To move forward or to remain stuck in the past?

The answer felt all too clear. So, with newfound understanding and appreciation for our shared journey, I chose to accept him as he was… imperfections included.

Today we continue to grow together, stronger than ever before!

It made me ponder… Did I forgive him so completely that the offense dissolved into the abyss of forgetfulness? Why didn’t I have the courage to stand tall and communicate my desires instead of taking the easy road of dismissal? And why, oh why, couldn’t I even remember what caused the upheaval in the first place?

Then, in a gentle whisper, the ethereal voice of the Holy Spirit graced my ears. “Rebecca,” it said, “this is the power of true forgiveness. When you embrace forgiveness with your whole being, it washes away the hurt, dilutes it in the vast sea of forgetfulness. It sets you free.”

In that moment, I realized the profound wisdom hidden within those words. It’s not just about forgiving others…no,  it’s about forgiving ourselves. Oh, if only all of humanity could release the shackles of resentment and let go! Imagine the harmony and peace that would grace our lives.

Eventually, I did let him go. However, it was a calm agreement with no fireworks or blaming!

Sometimes you DO have to let go of the old to embrace the new. I would never have met my darling husband, Thimas if I had not learned this valuable lesson.

I made you a video to explain this in detail. It is actually a mini-releasing workshop so bring your burdens, betrayals and resentent and get your fredom!

It will HELP you immensley and possible set you free forever!

Now when we talk about REAL BETRAYAL…we find it SO HARD to even stop thinking of that!

 

From Rebecca:

How many times have you berated yourself for something you did long ago?

In my case…it was being reminded of the wonderful things about my friend that helped with the forgetting.

Let us focus on the wonderful things about ourselves and be willing to ‘cast the faults into the sea of Forgiveness’.

Now… It’s only natural for the mind to say stuff like…

But if I forgive and forget then I could open myself up for more pain. (This thought has merit, yet, you don’t need to re-establish a relationship with them, however pulling up some good memories would improve the bitter taste in your mouth)

Or…but you don’t known what THEY did to me!

If you have a real hard time with this whole concept due to self-protection then honor your feelings.

However, could I ask that you DO USE this concept on yourself?

Are you able to forgive yourself for past mistakes?

Can you focus on all the precious, wonderful things about yourself?

A very helpful exercise at night is to ‘review the day’ and forgive yourself for every negative thought or action.

Just the act of doing this is a POSITIVE thing that you can pat yourself on the back for!

Please pass this along as you are guided.

Love,

Rebecca

 

Back in 2015, I had a situation that hurt me deeply ..betrayal that cut to the bone.

Spirit gave me a unique concept to heal my grief.

I cannot think of one human on earth who could not benefit from this healing. Set aside a few minutes to watch this…and watch it with your heart.

 

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  1. showana on January 21, 2019 at 7:31 pm

    I love this! Your messages; I swear are something I am either going through a certain situation or thinking about of it!!! You make a video on that subject! Spirit is awesome! Love yah Rebecca!

    God Bless!

    Showana Cole



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