Forgiving my Mother
Dear Mother Azna,
My mother died from complications after heart
surgery. It has been one week since her internment.
I am having a difficult time forgiving her for
using the surgery to die. This past month we could
have spent having fun with her instead of watching
her die slowly and painfully, in the hospital.
What can I do to forgive her and have peace and
joy again?
Grief Stricken
Dear Grief Stricken,
Your Mother is here with me. I know it was hard
to watch her suffer. She was not even in her body
much of the time- although it may have appeared so.
She humbly asks your forgiveness for causing you
pain. As you forgive yourself for not being able
to stop her pain or her choices, you will relax
and begin the healing process.
You are still her baby…
Love, Azna
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Sometimes it is hard to forgive ourselves when we think we caused someone harm.
You did not cause your father’s death- it was his time and he chose this way to go. He says there is nothing to forgive- he loves you and wants you to let yourself heal and let the guilt go, Love, Rebecca
Dear Mother Azna!
My father died two years ago in the hospital after heart sergery.
I still desagree with his death. I want to forgive myself why I gave permission for this sergery. I ask my father to forgive me. I loved him so much. I am stil crying. My health became worse. What can I do to forgive myself? What can I do my father forgive me?
It is not her fault, she did not know. You cannot blame her, child of hers. She did not suffer because you were at her side and not somewhere else at the time of her distress. You will see her again my child, have patience. She is with you in evertyhing you do and every moment of your life. You should not be angry at her for passing on to a better place and coming back to help those in need. This is why you shoul follow the proverv: “Do unto other as you would have done unto you” because you never ca be sure that they have not reincarnared from your beloved ones. My child you, at this moment have forgiven your mother because you understand that it was not under her control. God all mighty decides, not human beings. Mother God loves all!
May the force and energy be with you to help you understand my child.
Shalom!
It is not her fault, she did not know. You cannot blame her, child of hers. She did not duffer because you were at her side and not somewhere else at the time of her distress. You will see her again my child, have patience. She is with you in evertyhing you do and every moment of your life. You should not be angry at her for passing on to a better place and coming back to help those in need. This is why you shoul follow the proverv: “Do unto other as you would have done unto you” because you never ca be sure that they have not reincarnared from your beloved ones. My child you, at this moment have forgiven your mother because you understand that it was not under her control. God all mighty decides, not human beings. Mother God loves all!
May the force and energy be with you to help you understand my child.
Shalom!